The Reality of Stand-Up Comedy: What You Need to Know
When an individual makes the decision to take a shot at stand-up comedy, I know from firsthand experience that the tendency is to assume that getting laughs on stage as a comedian is far easier than it actually is.
There are some very good reasons for this, one of which is the ease with which we use our own sense of humor to get laughs in everyday life — without thought or study.
Another reason is the ease at which professional comedians are able to make it appear when delivering an act and getting big laughs, whether during live performances or TV performances.
Interestingly enough, these seemingly visible aspects that contribute to making the decision to become a comedian tend to be highly misleading.
Most new comedians get on stage expecting to be the “life of the party” and get the big laughs, only to find the audience not laughing and staring at them as if they had a third eye right in the middle of their forehead.
What Kind of Advice Can I Offer?
So you may be asking yourself — what kind of advice could I give someone who is considering jumping into stand-up comedy?
First, I would say that if someone is not really serious about pursuing stand-up comedy at a high level or on a professional level, they don’t really need to do much at all.
In other words, they can simply use the pure trial-and-error approach most comedians use or just get one or two of the inexpensive books on stand-up comedy that are available and work from them to try to develop a stand-up comedy act.
Just don’t be disappointed when those stand-up comedy books (#ad) don’t help you produce the results you want on stage.
The Ease of Failing
It takes very little effort to suck on stage, and one needs only go to ANY stand-up comedy open mic on the planet to experience exactly what I am talking about.
What is exciting about this aspect of stand-up comedy — the fact that most people who take a shot at it are terrible at it for a long time — provides tremendous potential opportunities for those who are able to “crack the code,” so to speak, and develop and deliver stand-up comedy material that actually gets big laughs.
Considerations for Serious Comedians
With that said, here are a few things that a person who is serious about taking a shot at stand-up comedy might want to consider:
- Preparation is Key: No matter how natural, conversational, or “off the top of the head” a stand-up comedy act may appear to be, IT IS AN ACT — an act that has usually been developed as the result of weeks and months, if not years of work.
- Understanding Your Audience: If the friends and family you are surrounded with are representative of a “general” audience, then you should have a much easier time getting the big laughs you want. If not, then you will probably struggle to get laughs on stage until you develop and deliver stand-up comedy material that will appeal to a general audience.
- Writing vs. Talent: If you are expecting to “write” your way to having comedy talent that you don’t actually have, may I humbly suggest you consider spending your time on something other than stand-up comedy?
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Essential Advice for Aspiring Comedians
Probably the most important pieces of advice I could give to someone who wants to be a comedian are these:
- Get on stage as soon as possible. See for yourself what it feels like. Observe what sort of laughter response you can generate.
- Do not be fooled into thinking that “writing” is the key to getting big laughs as a comedian. Stand-up comedy that actually works is multidimensional in nature (review this article for details).
- If what you are trying on stage is NOT working, don’t keep doing it expecting it to work sometime in the future.
The Alternative Path
Your other option is this:
Be just as clueless as most of the others attempting stand-up comedy at every comedy open mic night who have two chances of ever getting anywhere with their stand-up comedy – slim and none.
I propose that you find a system, method, or process that works for you as soon as possible. That will contribute to your success as a comedian more than any one thing I can think of.
Winners always prepare to win.
So I. Recently thought of going to an open mic to engage in an open conversation with the audience to get them involved and to maybe get some of there opinions on some things in my life. 1. Free therapist 2. Raw feedback. 3. People love to laugh at peoples pain . I moved from New York as the son of a preacher to the Bible Belt North Carolina I feel like if anyone could relate to my crazy ass upbringing it would be these people. I feel asking ? Getting there response will make it more comfortable for me to engage like any day to day conversation while also feeling them out to see which direction I can go to make them laugh, i love people and I love to make the laugh and smile so figured ide try it out, idc if I make it big I just want to have fun with it and enjoy the moments, thank you for letting me share
Im a new up and coming comedian. I have been on stage about 3 times now but once covid hit the world stopped. Now its time to get back out there. I just recently did a birthday for a friends and I did ok. It started off really good but then I tried telling a story. Anyway Ive found my own people(Black) are hard to make laugh but the other people love me. I NEED HELP!! I dont want to do no more open mic until I actually have a great skit to entertain the crowd with. I have great jokes but don’t know how to put them together in order to create my skit. I believe once I discover this I’ll do great
I believe you will find some of the answers that you are looking for in this special report: The Universal Deception.
It appears that your approach to stand-up material is the conventional “writing” approach. Writing is NOT talking. You don’t use “writing” when you make others laugh in everyday conversations. Writing down what you want to say and express to an audience in a way that has 4-6+ laughs per minute (punchlines) is NOT “writing” in the conventional sense.
Hello, I’m a 18 year old out of Indiana looking to make it big in stand up. I’m trying to become a comedian that’s huge like somebody such as Eddie Murphy and Joe Rogan. But the big problem for me is that I struggle to write jokes. I wouldn’t want to go to a open mic without being prepared and know what I’m doing. Do you have any advice for writing jokes? Thanks
That question is answered in this article:
Why The #1 Burning Question That Every New Comedian Has Is Not A Good Question At All/